People often say “new year, new me.” It may be pedantic, but I don’t really like that phrase. As I am entering a new year that contains more questions than ever in regard to the future of my life, I will not become a new person, nor do I think that would be a good idea. I will become a better version of myself.
Since coming overseas, I’ve learned a multitude of valuable lessons about people, about culture, and about myself. Some of those lessons were simple, and some were frustrating due to how different things can be when you are 3,601 miles from home. But, in the unexpectedly wise words of former NFL QB and Super Bowl Champion Trent Dilfer, “learning happens on the edge of uncomfortable.” In 2019, I will not let myself get comfortable.
Writing is something I love doing, but to conclude my studies I will have to write a 20,000 word dissertation filled to the brim with academic research as well as my own input, analysis, and findings. That will not be comfortable, but I will become a better writer and researcher. I have recently started boxing (just the training – not planning to compete) at the reputable, nearby Monkstown Boxing Club. Trust me when I say that the training is not comfortable! But it will make me a better athlete, whip me into the best shape of my life, introduce me to new people and a new sporting culture, and I happen to really enjoy it despite the challenge. I will help run a few fundraising events this spring with Sport Changes Life. While I love what we do, fundraising is a challenge for me and I’m not usually comfortable doing it, but it will make me more well-rounded and it will help our brand and mission continue to grow. When my time here comes to a close, I will soon be starting my career. For all I know, I could be in New York, London, or even Dubai. Any of these moves far away from my home in Wisconsin would be uncomfortable; I’m not afraid to admit that.
My dad always says the toughest part about anything is getting started. He’s right. The toughest part of my dissertation will be finding sources and reading them. The toughest part of learning to box was riding my bike to the club for the first time and walking in as the new guy in a small gym full of locals. The toughest part about starting my career will be moving somewhere new. After that, things get easier and they become natural. In 2019, I will be a better version of myself by continuing to do things that are new. I am willing to be uncomfortable.
