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Family

This past week has been the most looked forward to time since I arrived in Ireland a few months back. My parents have made their first trip over to Ireland together this week! As I wrote about a few blogs ago, my Dad was fortunate enough to come over in early October to catch the pre-season tournament, however this is the first time my mom has been able to make the trip over. After flying through the night, they arrived in Carlow bright and early on Thursday, and after grabbing a quick bite to eat with me, they decided to catch up on some sleep. 

They picked a great week to come over, we traveled down to Cork on Saturday, and are heading up to Belfast on Wednesday to reunite with the other scholars. Words can’t express how much I missed them, and being able to share my experience in Ireland with them is an amazing opportunity. Especially because thanksgiving is such a family oriented event where I am from, it is amazing to be able to have them in Carlow with me for this Holiday.  

This coming weekend will also be enjoyable for my parents because of the Freshers basketball tournament in Carlow. My parents are basketball junkies just like myself, and if anyone would want to sit in a gym all day and watch basketball, it is them. This weekend will also mark one of the first times that my parents not only get to see me play basketball on Friday, but Coach the Freshers team this weekend!  

While we plan to be involved with basketball and the SCL family while they are here, we are also hoping to get some tourist opportunities while they are here. Stay tuned for pictures and stories about their trip!  


WEEK 20

Exams are done and the family is here to visit!  I was a zombie the last 2 weeks studying but it was well worth it, the exams went well and I am relieved it is over!  The fam and I are headed to Rome, Italy this weekend and then off on a Mediterranean cruise to France and Spain as well!  So excited!! They are loving Dublin at the moment and will be back to experience Galway before they head back home to Chicago.  My best friends Aileen and Shauna have organized two dinner parties for two of the nights that my family is in Galway.  I honestly cannot be more grateful for them and their families hosting my own family and treating them so well during their stay. 

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Taking home the Gold

 

This weekend was an experience I will cherish forever as I was blessed enough to play for the BNI select team and represent Northern Ireland in basketball. The group that traveled over was such a talented and welcoming group, with guys from all different backgrounds and it was truly something special to see how we all clicked on the court.

 

I can’t describe how grateful I am to be able to represent the country of Northern Ireland through the sport of basketball. I was getting a little anxious as we walked in the gym as I often do before games,but then I thought to myself, I have come too far to let the fear of losing get in the way of me playing MY game. Through all the injuries and disappointing losses I was still playing! It’s nuts to think about. I can remember writing blogs a couple weeks ago with doctors telling me I probably wouldn’t be able to play in the month of March. Not only was I blessed enough to play but I got to go with a great group of guys who taught me about the game and we were able to bring home a Gold medal to Northern Ireland!

 

This just goes to show that with enough faith anything is possible. You may doubt at times as we all do but it’s important to never lose faith in God’s plan. Life is a Journey of peaks and Valleys and with some bad news from family members at home, my shoulder injury and my lovely girlfriend Kelly’s recent ankle injury playing basketball for the Elk’s women’s team life at times has felt like a valley. However after this weekend and seeing Kelly’s optimism I get this weird feeling we are on our way up to experiencing a peak. I want to give a huge thanks to Sport Changes Life for giving me the opportunity to play for Northern Ireland as well all my teammates this weekend for making me feel so welcome. I also want to specially thank Coaches Pat O’Neill and Niall McDermott for selecting me and looking after the team all weekend.

If you find yourself going through a valley this week just remember that it could change at any moment and God may show you a peak. Thank you for reading.

 

 

Victory Scholar: James Zuccaro

Present University: Ulster University

US League: Skyline Conference

Club/Community Partner: Ulster Elks

Alma Mater: College of Mount Saint Vincent

Sponsored by: Teamwear Ireland

 


Keep her lit

This weeks Ehoops session was a particularly fun one for me.  The young ladies that I worked with this week taught me a few things during the session.  I began teaching a few basketball skills to my group and asking what everyone’s name was.  The next thing I know I am getting questions about my hometown and how my experience here in Ireland has been so far.  The young ladies started to teach me some of the Irish vernacular and one word stood out to me “Keep Her Lit”.  I was taught by the young ladies that “keep her lit” means to keep it going.  I thought that phrase was awesome so I didn’t stop saying it and the girls didn’t stop laughing.  I wanted to keep the fun going so I continued to say keep her lit through out the night.  So now that I have picked up a little Irish vernacular I think I can better relate to the youth, which will definitely help me build relationships with them.  “To God Be The Glory”  

 

Victory Scholar: Jonathan McNair

Present University: Ulster University

US League: East Coast Conference

Club/Community Partner: Ulster Elks

Alma Mater: St. Thomas Aquinas College

Sponsored by: Teamwear Ireland


WEEK 18

The end of ehoops for one of our groups was a bittersweet moment. A special dinner was organized for the ehoopers that committed themselves to the 32-week program. It was a jubilant night as some of the guys even proclaimed that this was one of their biggest accomplishments and they will frame their awards. 

 

I have to say this happiness is warranted as many of the ehoopers went from guys that could not get through one of our technology teaching sessions into men that are growing into future community leaders. They may have graduated from Ehoops, but they will always be part of Sport Changes Life and I look forward to hearing about their continued growth and success.

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Too Much to be Thankful for

After an incredible week seeing everyone in Belfast, I was left with a long, dreary eight-hour bus ride home.  As I tried to sleep and hoped the time would fly by, I couldn’t help reflect how lucky I was to be in this position in life.  I don’t know if it was the incredible Irish landscapes flying by my window, or the fact that the Apple store in Belfast had fixed my broken iPhone that hadn’t been working for two weeks, but either way I was as content as one could be.  This made me realize how lucky I am to be here, and how thankful I am for everyone that played a part in my life. 

First off, I’m thankful to the Sport Changes Life program and everyone affiliated with it for making this incredible opportunity possible.  Not only has this program let me follow my dreams of continuing my athletic and academic careers, but it has also allowed me to continue doing something I love in working with kids and teaching them the game of basketball.  This program has also introduced me to 22 amazing people that have truly had an impact on my life.  This group of scholars is something special, and I can’t imagine tackling this adventure with any other bunch of individuals.  I am also very thankful for my Neptune family and all the great people I have met in Cork.  I am lucky to have such fun-loving teammates and such a passionate coaching staff, that has helped make this such an easy transition.  I am also thankful for everyone back at St. Mary’s.  During my time at St. Mary’s College I met some incredible people that I will consider lifelong friends.  The relationships I created and bonds that were forged helped me develop as a person and grow into the man I am today.  That is something that I will be forever grateful for.  I am also very thankful for the family friends and high school friends I have in Baltimore.  Even though my family has moved and I no longer have an actual house in Baltimore, I know I will always have a home there because of all the great people I have grown so close to during my lifetime growing up there.  However, most importantly, I am thankful for my family.  Too often I take for granted everything they have given me, and all the sacrifices they have made for me to get here.  The last four years has brought many challenges, and I can’t say enough how thankful I am for my family’s help along the way.  No matter where my parents were geographically at that time, I always knew they would make it to my basketball games and be my biggest supporters.  And even though my mom still gets scared every time I shoot, seeing them in the stands has put a smile on my face throughout my entire college career.  My parents and my sister have pushed me to pursue my goals and I would not have been able to achieve all that I have without them.  It has been extremely hard to be living so far away from them, but I know that no matter where they are, my family is always supporting me. 


WEEK 16

END OF CLASSES

Walking from Class to Class in UL, I Always See this Tree, I always think about how long it has been here and how my own rootes have become one with Ireland!

It is so hard to believe the second semester has flew by! I cannot believe it is already finished! Unlike some of the other scholars, I was lucky enough to not have to take any final exams. Instead of exams, my course consisted of group assignments and presentations, which meant I was done with my second semester in the beginning of May, much earlier than a lot of the other students. I would much rather have to give presentations and write papers rather than take exams, so I was very happy I didn’t have to do much studying! I think I benefited much more from doing the group work because I learned how to work with individuals of different personalities and backgrounds, something I will have to do once I start working.

 

Studying at the University of Limerick has been a great experience. The UL campus is beautiful and everyone who works for the university was so welcoming and supportive of me and I really enjoyed the masters program I completed (Marketing, Consumption and Society). The professors are very interactive with their students and are always offering their help when it comes to assignments. I loved being in a class with individuals from all different backgrounds and cultures. I think this enhanced my overall learning experience because I was able to gain insights into how businesses work/think in other parts of the world. UL is a great place to study and is filled with friendly individuals who are always offering their support, especially to those students who are unfamiliar with the area. 

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The Girls Last Ehoops

My last Ehoops session with the wonderful girls of the Short Strand community is today.  I will always remember these girls for all of the uplifting energy and laughter that they brought to each session.  I also will not forget learning Belfast vernacular from the girls during our first three or four sessions.  My favorite phrase was “Keep Her Lit” the girls taught me that during one our second sports sessions.  I blogged about learning the meaning of “Keep Her Lit” last year and how I just couldn’t stop saying it during our sports sessions.  The louder I said ‘keep her lit’ the louder the girls laughed and the harder they ran as we played soccer.  In the last seven weeks we have started to bring music and a speaker to each sports session and the girls have taught me a new dance move each week. 

Anyone who knows me personally knows that I cannot dance at all so I definitely appreciate all of the dance moves.  I would summarize our experience as being very fun with lots of learning.  They have taught me dance moves and Belfast vernacular that I will take with me forever but more importantly they have also taught me in the face of adversity to always try and have fun and carry a smile. I have been able to teach them team building skills through sport, how to use sport to bring people from all walks of life together, and the strength of building friendships with people who come from outside of their community.  I have confidence that these girls will grow up to be intelligent and successful young ladies.

I feel like it was just yesterday that I was introducing myself to the girls and learning their names.  I am thankful that I was given the opportunity to be a role model in the lives of these girls.  I wish we had more time to talk about making the world and their community better, dance to their favorite rap songs, and laugh during our sports sessions.  “To God Be The Glory”       

 

Present University: Ulster University

US League: East Coast Conference

Club/Community Partner Ulster Elks/ Andersonstown Tigers

Alma Mater: St Thomas Aquinas College

Sponsored By: Teamwear Ireland


First Preseason Tournament

Basketball season is back and I am very fortunate this year to be able to play on two basketball teams. I will be playing for the college team called the UL Wolves and also the Premier League team called the UL Eagles. I have had 5 practices so far with the Eagles and this weekend we had our preseason tournament. 

 

I did not get a lot of playing time at NC State so I have been anxiously waiting to play in my first game over here since I first landed. The night before the tournament I was like child on christmas eve. I couldn’t fall asleep and I stayed up thinking about how the games would go. I was so focused on finally getting my chance to play that I didn’t realize the main reason of the tournament until I arrived at the gym before the game.

 

The tournament was called the Stuart Robbins Memorial Tournament. Stuart Robbins was a UL Eagles player that unfortunately passed away five years ago. The tournament consisted of four Premier League teams, a USA Select team, and a Stuart Robbins All-Star team. The All-Star team is what caught my attention. It was a team put together of Stuart’s friends and former teammates (although some of his former teammates are still on the Eagles). These guys where in their mid-30’s and most didn’t play basketball anymore. But this tournament allows them every year to come back to Limerick and be on the same team again playing the sport they love to honor their friend. The tournament wasn’t about wins or losses but it was about bringing back together longtime friends to celebrate Stuart’s life. After the tournament, the Eagles and the All-Stars all went out to eat and socialize at a local tavern. The night was full of laughs and good times and I felt extremely fortunate to take part in this special weekend. 

 

“Sport Connects Life” was the name of my first blog post and this tournament is another example of that power. 

 

Victory Scholar: Staats Battle

Present University: University of Limerick

US League: ACC

Club/Community Partner: UL Huskies

Alma Mater: North Carolina State University

Sponsored by: Team Ireland

 


WEEK 17

EXAM TIME!!! As the academic year came to a close and all our coursework was done and dusted, we had one week off and then we jumped right into exams. Just as spring semester exams are in the States, it is very very difficult to concentrate and study for them just because the weather begins to get hotter, the sun begins to shine more, and summer begins to creep in.

 

This was somewhat the case while studying for the four exams we had in our course at University of Ulster also here in Ireland. Saying that, I stuck it through and I believe that I finished the semester strong with a good grade on all four exams. Now it is time to relax a little bit before our third semester of the tri-semester Masters of Business Studies course starting on May 31st. I still can’t believe my Victory Scholarship experience is almost over!!

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Thankful

Thanksgiving, while having complicated culturally significant roots, has turned into a day of celebration for what we are thankful for. At it’s core, it’s a time to be around people you are thankful for, eat food you are blessed to have and to put stresses/worries on the back burner to just enjoy life at it’s present. This year, the Victory Scholars spent part of their day of thanks at The Welcome Organisation in Belfast. This organization aims to assist the homeless population with food, shelter, clothing and anything else they may need. The volunteer coordinator, an older gentleman named Sam (with a mustache reminiscent of his looney tunes namesake Yosemite Sam), explained the incredible full service resources they provide for those who have fallen on hard times in Belfast. He repeatedly thanked us for coming in to lend a hand and directed us to the storage room with the task of sorting through and organizing clothing donations so they can be processed and either put off to recycling or to those in need. After a bit of specific instruction we began sorting clothes, the room was vibrant as we shared stories and laughs while simultaneously sifting through second hand high heels and boots. While we were in this room, several of the Welcome Organisation’s “customers” would come back intermittently to peruse the available clothing. Most of them being male, middle-aged and looked the part of what a person would imagine a homeless person to look like. Except one. One man came in, he was about my age, bespectacled, with short dark hair and look of fading light within his eyes. As Sam led him around the room he repeated the statement “whatever you would be willing to give me” and often opted to take clothes of the incorrect size. After Sam and staff assisted him to a new, correct fitting, pair of trousers and a jacket he was on his way with a surplus of gratitude for the Welcome Organisation. As he left, I felt myself wanting to run after him to ask questions. How could he be homeless? What happened? Where did things go wrong? My inquisitive nature deriving from a state of empathy, seeing a person in a predicament I was blessed to avoid. I continued to ponder, this time more about myself and my life, I have been blessed to live a full life filled with opportunity and reward for hard work. However I believe, without the support system I had, including the game of basketball, I wouldn’t be far off from the man with the glasses that I had just met. That’s the strange complexity of life, it is not made up of months or years but rather moments, small excerpts of time that add up to determine the course of one’s life. For me, so far, I have been able to capitalize on those moments and direct my life to a positive direction. I am aware that only a few moments separate the man with the glasses and myself, so this thanksgiving I am thankful for the structure and support to be able to capitalize on my moments and I am proud to use my blessings to attempt to provide some support for others, so they can capitalize on their moments. Happy Thanksgiving everyone.

 


WEEK 19

So this past week I had a trial for a pro team in Toulouse, France called Colomier.  I was nervous because I knew I wasn’t in the best shape that I wanted to be in, but the trial went well!  I was able to stay with Tim Coyne who was the victory scholar in Galway last year.  It was difficult because very few people speak hardly any English so the language barrier was a struggle in the training sessions.  The team was nice and I am happy to bring back good news that I will be playing for them next season!  This would have never been possible without the Sport Changes Life victory scholarship program.  I would have never had the connections and doors opened for me to meet my life goals!  So blessed!!

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Winning My First International Championship

I was blessed this past weekend to represent the Northern Ireland premier league in the NAIC All Ireland championship.  It is an amazing feeling to win a championship and be selected as on of the twelve best players in the league.  My first championship was much different for me since I am in a different country and playing with guys I would usually compete against each week.  The best part of the trip wasn’t winning probably because of how well we played.  I enjoyed riding in the car with fellas getting lost on the way to the gym singing R&B songs and making snapchat videos.  I think we would have won a karaoke championship as well that weekend.

 

The change of pace and new scenery down in the city of Cork made the weekend fun as well.  I was able to relax and explore a new city which is always fun.  My Sports Changes Life brother and Ulster Elks teammate James Zuccarro was selected to play on the team which was cool.  We had an opportunity to just talk as men and get to know one another outside of being teammates and working together.  As we both get ready for this upcoming playoff journey in April being selected to the Northern Ireland select team was great.  The opportunity to get to know a person outside of work really helps you when it comes to working together. 

 

I am truly thankful to win my first International Championship and I look forward to winning many more.  Thank you for reading my blog. Let nothing stand in your way of working to make your dreams a reality.  “To God Be The Glory”   

 

Present University: Ulster University

US League: East Coast Conference

Club/Community Partner Ulster Elks/ Andersonstown Tigers

Alma Mater: St Thomas Aquinas College

Sponsored By: Teamwear Ireland

 

    


Go Galway Go

Before coming to Ireland I spoke with several former Victory Scholars. While they all had different suggestions for me, each one gave me the same piece of advice.

Each one told me to get out and immerse myself in the Irish culture and to try as many new things as possible. In order to experience everything this country has to offer you have to try some things you are unfamiliar with. Last Sunday I followed their advice and did something that I have never done before in my life, which was watching a hurling match. For those unfamiliar with the game, players carry large wooden sticks playing on a field with what looks like both a soccer net and football uprights. Players then run and pass to advance a ball up the field attempting to hit the ball in the goal for three points or through the uprights for one point.

This past Sunday, Galway was playing in the all-Ireland hurling championship against heavy favourite Kilkenny. This was an event that I was told was the Irish equivalent to the American Super Bowl. To support their team, the city of Galway filled a large park in the middle of the city with avid Galway hurling fans to watch the match on one massive tv. With members of my basketball team, I went to support the now hometown team. I looked like one of the locals as one of my teammates brought me a large maroon Galway flag that was tied around my neck like a cape. I was soon attentively watching the game and participated in cheering on the maroon and white, despite having no idea what was going on. By the end of the match I had a basic understanding of the rules and really enjoyed watching this unfamiliar game in a lively environment. As the game concluded with Kilkenny on top, I felt the disappointment with my fellow Galway fans. Despite being a foreigner in a new city, I felt that I had something in common with the thousands of Galway fans that surrounded me. 

 

Victory Scholar: Cory Starkey

Present University: NUI Galway

US League: Patriot League

Club/Community Partner: Galway Titans

Alma Mater: Bucknell University

Sponsored by: Teamwear Ireland

 

 


WEEK 23

Studying, studying and more studying! Thats what my days have consist of for the past couple of weeks with final exams coming up (which starts tomorrow!). I have four exams to complete until I am free from doing any more work related to academics! It hasn’t really hit me yet that the academic year has almost come to an end. Ive made so many connections with my classmates and lectures that I am grateful to have met. But I’m not done yet seeing my peers. Shortly after our last exam, as a class, we are going to be traveling to Hong Kong! But before that, I need to get through these exams! Now I got to get back to my last second study cram session! Wish me luck and I’ll fill you guys in later with how my exams and Hong Kong went!

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Giving Thanks

Spending Thanksgiving in another country is sure to be a different experience, and understandably so, because outside of America the holiday is not celebrated. Due to basketball, I have spent the past four thanksgivings away from home; however, each year has assumed a unique role presenting different things for which I can express gratefulness. In that sense, this year was no different. All of the scholars returned to Belfast to gather for a few days of training, media, community service, and fellowship. We all reunited on Wednesday in Belfast and shared many laughs and stories about our different experiences across Ireland.

Homeless Shelter

We spent Thursday volunteering at a Homeless center helping sort clothes for their distribution. When we first arrived at the stock room most of us were unsure how to do what they were asking of us and wondered if we could really make any contribution to the dissaray in just that one day. To our surprise, hours later we had finished sorting the clothes into different bags and the room looked tremendously more organized. While sorting clothes may seem a monotonous task, the experience of working alongside the other scholars, spending time talking and catching up as we worked and knowing that we were helping provide clothing, something we easily take for granted, for people who have had more difficult and devastating circumstances and are in need, was special. The act of serving others can be extremely humbling and to do it alongside friends adds another unique dimension to the endeavor. I think the day left us all feeling very grateful for the opportunity to make a small impact in the lives of others.

Later on in the day we got to participate in a really cool photo shoot, orchestrated by Marc, where we got to dress up in our SCL gear and get creative in front of the camera. The festivities culminated in a very lovely Thanksgiving celebration event at Aether and Echo. The ambiance was lovely and the people were even better. We spent the evening laughing, and eating, sharing stories of our own family traditions, and giving thanks for the opportunity to all be together at this time. Perhaps the most special and surprising part of the evening was when the SCL staff surprised us with a collection of videos from our family members wishing us Happy Thanksgivings all the way from home. The videos brought some to tears and all to laughter as we got to see the quirks and love shown by everyone’s family members in different ways. From embarrassing photos, to cute cousins, to parents trying to figure out how to take a video of themselves for the first time, we were all filled with so much love and thanks that can simply not be put into words.

When I think back to that night I am filled with extreme gratitude – gratitude for the opportunity to study, for the generosity of teammates, SCL, and others I have met here, gratitude for the kids we get to work with, whose zest for life is contagious and beautiful, gratitude for the fresh air and beautiful greenery of the north coast, for the wonderful scholars who were chosen to embark on this journey alongside of me, and gratitude for my family and friends back home who continue to invest, check in, and send love from afar.

I wish we had thanksgiving more often because I truly believe that when we assume a posture of gratitude we not only brighten our own lives but we are inspired to serve others and spread the joy and thankfulness as much as we can.


WEEK 15

Varsities weekend has probably been the most anticipated weekend since I arrived in Ireland.  Varsities is when all the college teams in Ireland come together for a weekend to compete for the coveted Cup title and socialize with one another. The last couple of years, the UL girls have come so close to winning the final, but have been unsuccessful.  This year, our whole team was really looking forward to competing in the tournament because we felt like we had one of the strongest teams.  We played a total of 5 games in 3 days and after winning a tough first match against Gretchen and NUIG, we rolled through our next 3 games to qualify for the final. We played UCD in the final and the majority of the match was neck and neck.  With the score tied 62-62 with about 30 seconds left, a player from UCD threw up a three right at the buzzer and swooshed it! We honestly could not believe we had just lost…after playing so well all weekend we were so disappointed in the outcome of the final. I’m still very bitter about that game!

 

Besides losing at the buzzer in the final, the rest of the weekend was some great craic! It reminded me of my AAU days when we would have weekend tournaments and spend all of our time hanging out in the gym or hotel and messing around with teammates. At nights, we got to hang out with all the other teams so it was great to get to know some of them outside of the competitive setting of the basketball court. And of course, it was great to see the other scholars!! It’s never boring when we’re all together! 

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Prepare for Landing

Over the past couple of weeks, I have anxiously been waiting for the day that my brother, David, and our good friend, Tyler, arrive in Ireland. For months now, we have been planning their trip here during their spring break from college… and now, it is finally here!

 

Waiting for them at the airport was an exciting feeling. I thought about the last time I saw them and how long it has really been. These two guys are easily some of the most important people in my life. No matter what we are doing, we always have a blast, so I am very excited for them to be here!

 

I am not only excited to finally catch up with them in person, but I am also eager to have my first visitors in Ireland! Obviously, I have told people about my awesome experience over here, but there is only so much people can really understand without seeing it for themselves. I am proud of the lifestyle I live over here in Ireland, and the people I have had the opportunity to get so close with. I want the people close to me from home, to meet the people I am close with over here, because I can only imagine how well they will get along. With that being said, it is only fitting that David and Tyler are the ones that are coming over to see my “Irish life.” I am very excited for them to see what I have been up to during this past year!  

 

David, Tyler, and I have so much fun together when we are all States-side, so I can only imagine how much fun we can have in a new country that they have never been to. Updates to follow on all the adventures we have! 

 

Victory Scholar: Sarah Benedetti

Present University: University of Limerick

US League: NEC

Club/Community Partner: UL Huskies

Alma Mater: St. Francis College 

Sponsored by: Teamwear Ireland


Do not apologize for shooting …

I anticipated that our club team was going to have to be the scrappiest and quickest five players on the court. Katie and I had our first Super League game Wednesday night against the Kilkenny Ladies. Naturally, they had players that were much thicker and taller, but height does not necessarily guarantee a win. In my basketball career, I’ve always been defined by the quote “it’s not about the size of the dog in the fight, but the size of the fight in the dog.” I’ve embraced the underdog attitude and it has sculpted me in to the person I am today. The Wildcats may not have been the tallest girls on the court but we did win, with our speed and hustle, and more importantly we won as a unit.

As a player, it is always refreshing going in to the next practice after a good win. Before we even touched a basketball, our coach, Mick Evans, said something to us today in practice that struck me as a player and as a person. He said, “Do not apologize for shooting the ball and don’t be afraid to shoot the ball because you naturally hesitate when you’re afraid. You can’t play this game if you are afraid and you don’t know what you can achieve if you are afraid.” Most of my basketball career, I was always afraid to shoot the ball. Not because I can’t shoot the ball but because I didn’t believe in myself. My discomfort with the skill and fear of missing led past coaches and spectators to accept that I couldn’t shoot. As a player, it’s our competitive nature and drive to want to be the best that we can achieve. There’s nothing more disappointing than allowing your career to be defined by your flaws and even more disappointing to allow others to let it define you. Confidence is worst thing you can take away from a player. Luckily, my Irish experience so far has unmasked the little things in life that we subconsciously overlook daily. Knowing that the coach has more confidence in us players than we do ourselves this year is sparking the rebirth of my basketball career. The Wildcats will be ready to play our hearts out this weekend in our tournament in Dublin. As for me, I am no longer afraid and believe its time to unleash the beast that has been held captive for so long….

 

Victory Scholar: Jazmen Boone

Present University: Waterford IT

US League: CAA

Club/Community Partner: Waterford Wildcats

Alma Mater: The College of William and Mary

Sponsored by: Teamwear Ireland

 

 


WEEK 18

Varsities weekend was SO much fun!  It was so good to see the other scholars and finally spend a weekend of basketball together!!  It felt like the good old days of AAU with the weekend tournaments.  Our first game was amazing because we played Limerick who we have split before (won and lost). It was an outstanding come back I think we were down about 15 with less than 3:50 to go and we cut it to 2. It was a great fight, we never gave up and I was so proud of my team.  Should have had it, but that was by far our best game as a team.  The varsity ball was the best part on Sunday where all of the players have a night out together.

 I wish they had this at the beginning of the year so you can get to know the players around Ireland at the start but better late than never I suppose!  Also, great news:  I’ll be traveling over to Toulouse, France at the end of April/1st week of May to have a trial with a professional basketball team there!  So excited!! Exams just started so I’ll be going between exams.  Wish me luck!

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Thanksgiving Bash!

This week was Thanksgiving, and I must say that it has been a tough week. This is the first time that I have been away from my family for Thanksgiving. At first it wasn’t too bad being away but as the week went on, it became harder. Knowing that I was missing Thanksgiving hurt. But it was awesome to see that SCL had made a strong effort in making sure we didn’t miss out on our Thanksgiving meal. They brought all the scholars back to Belfast for a few days, and it was awesome hanging out with all of them again. We had tons of fun, and ate tons of food! What made Thanksgiving was the videos all our families sent us. Seeing my parents and my brother wishing me a happy Thanksgiving from across the “pond” made me feel at home. It was funny to watch and hear what some of the parents had done in the videos, some were so funny and a few of the videos made some scholars tear up, and you could see how much they missed being at home with their families. Guess you never fully understand what it’s like to miss Thanksgiving with your family, till you actually miss it.


Week 16

Hi everyone!

Surgery went very well! I wanted to thank everyone for their kind thoughts and prayers.  I was immobile and on serious medication for two weeks. The first couple of days were extremely painful but the worst is over now. My family is taking great care of me and I couldn’t go through this process without them, thats for sure!  I just left the doctors where they cut my cast off and now I am in the biggest boot I have ever seen! But at least I am a bit more mobile yet the crutches are driving me crazy! I am using my “euro” crutches though! Elevation and ice is the doctors orders I still can not put pressure on it. They told me this is the worst injury to recover from because you can’t push it, it is going to be a long road to recovery. I should be 100% in a full year. 

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Exploring Belfast

After David and Tyler arrived, our first adventure began. We hopped on a bus to Belfast…another two hours of sitting down and traveling for the guys, they were thrilled. But the two hours went by so quickly as we just caught up after their long day of traveling. Kelsey, the born again Victory Scholar, joined us, as well as Katie! It was awesome to have such a big group going to Belfast for the weekend.

 

In an attempt to have the boys overcome jet lag, I kept them as busy as possible… by the end of the fist night they were all set with my busy itinerary. To start the day, we decided to go to the famous Titanic Museum. It was architecturally beautiful with so much interesting, historical information. We took a taxi to get there, which was the best decision. Our driver was better than any tour guide could have been. As we drove around, he pointed out all of the historical sights and landmarks of Belfast, giving far more information about the city than I could ever point out to David and Tyler.

 

One of the most popular attractions of Northern Ireland is Giant’s Causeway and all the other smaller attractions located near it. So on the Sunday, we decided to get up early and hop on a tour bus that took us to all the amazing sights! Getting on a tour bus sounded like a great idea, until we realized the one we got on had no air conditioning, so we all roasted for 2 plus hours as we made our way to Antrim. As unpleasant as the temperature was, we made the most of it, shared some laughs and made sure every single person on the bus could hear us complain about how hot we thought it was… I’m sure the busload of people loved us.

 

On the tour, we got to face our fear of heights, and walk over the Carrick-A-Rede Rope Bridge; which had a phenomenal view looking out onto the water. Then we went to the famous, Giant’s Causeway, where we not only saw the famous volcanic eruption site, but we also climbed to the top of a mini mountain, which overlooked the beautiful scene. Then, after that we got to see the Bushmills Whiskey Distillery. By the end of the tour, we were exhausted and ready to make our way back to Limerick.

 

The trip back to Limerick was another interesting one, where I’m sure we yet again annoyed the entire bus of people. At this point we had been on the go since 9 am, and it was now 11 pm on the bus. No one could sleep, and all our phones were dead, so we all deliriously joked and laughed the entire way home.

 

It was a great weekend in Belfast, where we all got to see some new sights that we had not seen before. It was a great first couple of days for David and Tyler to see some of the natural beauties of Ireland. Now it was time to take them back to Limerick, to see what I have been up to for this past year!

 

Victory Scholar: Sarah Benedetti

Present University: University of Limerick

US League: NEC

Club/Community Partner: UL Huskies

Alma Mater: St. Francis College 

Sponsored by: Teamwear Ireland


Locked In

Lil and I arrived in Carlow on Monday and took a brief tour of our new school and gym. I am excited to call this home for the next year. It shows some similarity with my alma matter but much more differences. It is bigger in population and a much higher percentage of international students. This dynamic is different for me and can’t wait to explore it.

I got to play for the first time with my team for ITC Basketball, and it brings that nervous, butterfly feeling back. I’m looking forward to getting to know my team. They are very welcoming and easy to talk to, just like the team I came from. It seems like a great fit and I’m locked in for the season.

Lil and I got news that our accommodation was cleaned and ready to go and we were extremely anxious to move in. She has a master plan as she is the interior decorator and I am excited to get back to cooking and can’t wait to see the kitchen!


Week 22

Well we just checked into the hotel! The two and a half hour bus ride down was a chill and laid back one. Now that we’re actually down here in cork, players are now starting to get into “game mode”. Last year the team didn’t do as well as they wanted to do in varsities. So players this year are determined to do better. Can’t wait for tomorrow morning. It’s going to be a good test for us to see how bad we want it this year as a team. That’s it for now, I’ll catch up with you guys after the game to let you know how things went!

Great win this morning over CIT! We looked like a completely different team from a month ago. We were playing together, aggressive and extremely efficient. But we can’t celebrate to much. We got a very much anticipated game tonight against my fellow victory scholars Matt and Jim of the University of Ulster. Our team knows what we got to do, we just go to get it done! I’ll check in with you guys after to let you know how things went!

Got our second win tonight!! It was an extremely exciting game with both teams playing very well. But our team was just able to hold Matt and Jim’s UUJ team off till the final buzzer. We can’t get too happy about this win though. We have to come back tomorrow and continue our great play and beat DBS (Dublin Business School) to advance to the semi-final game. We got to keep it up! I’ll check in with you guys tomorrow!

And we’re into the championship game!! We faced UCD in the semi-finals and beat them pretty handily. As a team we went into the game with a mindset to start off strong and to continue through the game with our great play, which we were able to do. Now just one more game! Tonight we will face a talent UL (University of Limerick). We are extremely excited and anxious for tonight. We have accomplished half of what we wanted I achieve down here in Cork. We are in the championship game, now we have to go out there are get the VICTORY! I’ll check in after the game to let you know the results! Stay tuned!

It was an unfortunate finish to the season, but we still had a lot to be proud of. In the end, we were able to walk out with our heads up. We played hard throughout the whole game, but UL was able to hold us off just long enough. I was fortunate enough to play with a great bunch of dudes. I appreciate all the work that everyone put in throughout the season. Now that the seasons over, and everyone has to part and go their own ways. I wish everyone the best of luck in their future, whether that is in a new job, sports related or another year of school. Thank you for following my blogs this whole weekend. Take care everyone

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Thanksgiving in Belfast

This past week was my first Thanksgiving not being home, which was difficult, but I was lucky enough to spend it in Belfast with my Sport Changes Life family.  For the past years, Thanksgiving has been a time to see family and friends in Baltimore, as well as a nice break from school.  However, now that my family is spread out all across the world, we were only able to celebrate through Facetime and texts between one another.  With me in Ireland and my mom on a work trip in Puerto Rico, it was only my dad and sister (and Sam) that got to spend Thanksgiving at our home in Savannah, GA.  I was also unable to see all my Baltimore friends and family which makes this my first Thanksgiving ever not being there.  This would have been an impossible task, if not for the incredible week I had over here.

I was lucky enough to travel to Belfast for the week and spend time with the Sport Changes Life crew.  Getting to see everyone and having us all together again for a couple days was just as great as I had hoped.  After a night of media training with Marc, we got to spend Thanksgiving morning helping out at a local homeless shelter.  This was an incredible experience and it was great giving back to those who need it.  We helped organize donated food and clothes, and as is everything we do as a group, the Victory Scholars thoroughly enjoyed the day.  We even got to play an intense game of Clue during our lunch break, which went from joking to serious very quick.  Our time at the homeless shelter was followed by picture day at the SCL office.  We were all very excited to try on our new gear and everyone looked great repping the SCL clothing.  Picture day with Marc was great as always and it really is incredible how good he makes us look with his impressive camera work.  Finally the day was finished with a big Thanksgiving dinner that everyone was excited for.  Sport Changes Life put on a great event and it was great to have everyone together for this American Holiday.  We were all surprised and overwhelmed at the video of our friends and family from home wishing us a Happy Thanksgiving and it was truly the best gift SCL could have given us.  The videos from my sister and dad (featuring Sam) were exactly what I needed to make this Thanksgiving away from home a special one.  It was tough being away from them this week, but spending Thanksgiving in Belfast with my SCL family was a wonderful experience that I will never forget.


Who realized basketball clothes were so unflattering

Meg and myself have been traveling to different schools, basically putting on mini clinics for the students. We have gone to some pretty nice schools, private schools around town, as well as schools in some disadvantage areas. Today was a day in the disadvantaged area.

 

What I will say about the less advantaged schools, is that these kids bring A LOT of personality. They may not always be the most well behaved or the easiest to coach, but they sure do make Meg and I laugh. One of the many stories from these coaching sessions is when a 10 year old felt the need to give me love advice. While attempting to keep a class focused on dribbling drills, a 10 year old boy looks me up and down, and asks, “excuse me, do you always dress in basketball clothes?” Because of how politely he asked, and how out of nowhere his question was, I decided to entertain him and answered “when I’m playing basketball I do.” I had not realized what I just set myself up for. He proceeds to ask how I look in normal clothes, which I then explain that I would guess I look better in them. He then, what I think seems somewhat randomly, asks if I have a boyfriend; when I tell him “uhhh, no?”, he proceeds to look me up and down and then concludes to himself “well…..I hate to say this, but that’s why you don’t.” …………..guess I’m not a ‘sweat pants, chilling with no make-up on’ type of a gal. #DrakeLyricsComingInHandy

 

Victory Scholar: Emily Leer

Present University: Trinity College Dublin

US League: Big East Conference

Club/Community Partner: Trinity Basketball Women

Alma Mater: Villanova University

Sponsored by: Teamwear Ireland


WEEK 17

A week of Spring Break has flown by here in Belfast.  I took a mini trip with Julia to Scotland where we were able to explore the Scottish Highlands along with Edinburgh.  Although the weather was chilly, the scenery was beautiful and the city of Edinburgh was full of history. Most notably, I enjoyed the Edinburgh Castle, which was more like a small town complete with a jail, Scottish Soldier Memorial, viewing area of the Scottish Crown Jewels and the birthplace of the first Scottish King of England, James I.  The people of Scotland were welcoming, the country is gorgeous and the whisky was tasty. The rest of the week was full of staying up late watching March Madness, celebrating Sarah’s birthday in Belfast and a delicious Easter dinner with the Maguires!

 

I am actually going back to Edinburgh today along with Matt, but this trip is a bit more business like.  We were fortunately chosen for the Northern Ireland University representative team in the Four Nations tournament.  This is where the best college basketball players from Northern Ireland, Scotland, England and Wales compete in a round robin tournament.  The talent level should be high as some BBL players compete and I am looking forward to the challenge!  

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Turkey Day

Of all the holidays over the calendar year, Thanksgiving is my second favorite right behind the Fourth of July. Its subtlety is its best characteristic. It’s not over-commercialized like Christmas, and the basis of the day is to give thanks and stuff your face until you find yourself in a food induced coma. What’s not to love?

 

This Thanksgiving was a wee bit different than the past 22 I’ve experienced in my life, as I spent it away from my family and friends at home. Although I didn’t get the chance to eat my mom’s unearthly pumpkin pie and fall in and out of nap time while watching football on the couch with my old man, I did get to spend it with an entirely new family: The Sport Changes Life family. All 23 Victory Scholars were bused up to Belfast to spend a few days together. While there, we had the opportunity to volunteer at a homeless shelter. Seeing the homeless folks happy just to get a warm meal and a blanket made me appreciate the little things even more over those few days. Thanksgiving is a time to step back and soak in all of the good that life has afforded you with and to show gratitude for all of your blessings in life. I was lucky to have the chance to do this with 23 great people.

 

After our volunteer work, we had a fantastic Thanksgiving dinner and got the chance to celebrate the night. The week was enjoyed by all, and it was a great last hoorah with my fellow Victory Scholars before final exams and Christmas break arrive. They’ll be here before we know it, and unfortunately so will the end of this year. That’s why I’m going to soak in every experience over here while I still can.


An Interesting Viewpoint

I am currently in the process of collecting my research for my dissertation through focus groups.  I have completed 3 with a total of 13 first year students at I.T. Carlow.  The focus group setting is good for my study because it allows students to bounce thoughts and memories off of each other to elicit answers I need to prove or disprove theories.

 

I am recording their beliefs and opinions on past family experiences and challenges that influence their family.  A recurring theme is the family relationships strengthening as a result of being away at college.  Given that I’m studying abroad, I can relate to this and wholeheartedly agree that my family has gotten stronger since I’ve been gone. It makes you realize that the time you have together is extremely valuable. I’m glad I chose this topic because it allows me to learn and research more about a situation I’m in, from others viewpoints without them even knowing. 

 

 

Victory Scholar: Harrison Deyo

Present University: IT Carlow

US League: MAC

Club/Community Partner: IT Carlow Basketball

Alma Mater: Alvernia University

Sponsored by: Teamwear Ireland


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