Girl Talk

I sat down with my Under 15 girls before practice today for a wee discussion in honor of International Women’s Day yesterday. All 9 of them had know the significance of the day and when asked how they knew the answer was unanimous- SNAPCHAT! (It’s slightly terrifying that Snapchat is a prominent source of information these days but I digress lol). They were all happy enough to be members of the ‘fairer sex’ but some admitted they wouldn’t mind being a boy for a day, ‘maybe’. 

 

When I asked them what was their favorite part about being a girl–whatever that might mean–the answers were various and sort of profound.

 

“We get to look pretty”. – Kate

“We’re rough with words but not physical”. – Julia

“People underestimate me,” said Michelle “…but then we’re like BAM!” added Roisín.

 

I thought it was pretty cool that being underestimated and the ‘element of surprise’ was something they positively associated with being a girl. Definitely quite a different outlook than the negative connontation ‘glass ceiling’ normally has for women everywhere.

 

Of course, we discussed the trials of being a female athlete as well. Kate and Claire were quite outraged that because they’re girls, its assumed that they’re bad at sport. Even worse, their male counterparts trivialize their accomplishments (like making a team) by saying it was easy for them. While I know just how they feel, I hope I’m teaching them that true talent cannot be denied, that every time they step into a room or on the court its a chance to let their talent speak for itself. Finally, when I asked them if boys had a role in their future plans Hazel responed, “…Maybe when I’m OLD but until then I can do what I want”.  What a great statement and I couldn’t argue with her. lol

 

 

 

 

Victory Scholar: Marritta Gillcrease
Present University: NUI Galway
US League: MAAC
Club/Community Partner: Galway Titans
Alma Mater: Rider University
Sponsored by: Teamwear Ireland


Week 11

Hey everybody! Sorry for the late post, just got back in last week and still getting into the swing of things again… Coaching has just about doubled up this passed week since my college NUIG team was asked to help out a local school team of u16 girls basketball players with an important game this weekend. A few of us accepted and were happy to do it. 2 differences I’d like to acknowledge: 1.) Having multiple coaches help run a session is 100x easier and more effective. 5 of us showed up to help out and the kids absolutely loved it. Much better than what I’m used to [being solo]. 2.) no matter the skill level, everybody was so polite and eager to learn it amazed me. Every single player came up to each of us (coaches) individually and said thank you after each session. That really makes it worth it when the kids are excited and thankful for your help. Best of luck to them this weekend! Big college game for us on Monday afternoon against WIT. I still find it odd that college games are scheduled during the day in between lectures… Gotta love Ireland!

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The Little Things

This past Monday, I received a phone call from our community partner Joe Coughlan at 11:00pm. Usually Joe never calls this late, which made me think something was wrong. Instead, Joe called and invited me down to the pub at the bottom of my street to meet a past Galway Victory Scholar, Will Archambault, who was visiting for a few days. I’ll never turn down a free pint, so I walked down to meet up with them.

 

We spent about an hour or so chatting in the pub, and after hearing stories from both Joe and Will, it helped me take a step back and realize how great of an opportunity it is to be over here. The nostalgia was noticeable in the way Will spoke about his time here and the way Joe told stories about all of the past Galway Victory Scholars. After all, playing basketball in the National League and receiving my master’s is great, but getting the chance to improve the life of young people and build lifelong relationships with some truly special people over here is even better. In a few years when I look back on this experience, I won’t remember the wins and losses from basketball or the projects I completed in school. What I’ll remember are the experiences I had and the people I met, and that is not something to be taken for granted.

 

With the coming week being Thanksgiving, I plan to keep this realization in mind as I travel to Belfast for a few days with all of the Victory Scholars. This opportunity won’t last forever, and time is already flying by right in front of my eyes. I want to do all that I can to savor the experience, because it truly is a once in a lifetime opportunity.


Week 12

After a much needed 10 days in the States enjoying family and friends it is great to be back in Belfast. Matt, Caroline and I have taken two exams since we have been back and we finish up on Thursday with our Marketing exam. Then we are back to classes and a busy schedule of seven courses. 

We had a great time at Knockconan Primary School, Emyvale, Co Monaghan. When we arrived at the school we were surprised to find the rims dangerously on the wrong way so that that kids would run into the base when doing a lay up. Sometimes you learn to expect the unexpected in Ireland when it comes to basketball. 

The kids were great and seemed to have a lot of fun. I got the usual couple of kids singing the Fresh Prince theme song when I told everyone that I was from Philadelphia. Many of these kids have never played basketball. Matt made a Lebron James reference and most of the kids had no idea who he was talking about! It is my hope that us going to these schools can get a couple kids interested in the sport that Matt, Caroline and I love. They promised they would keeping working on their jump shots after Caroline taught them BEEF and were hoping to organize a class trip to an Elks game. 

Thanks for reading, looking forward to Ehoops tonight and finishing my last exam tomorrow!

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Teddy

If you know me, you know I love animals, especially dogs. Ever since 4th grade our family has had a golden retriever. We named the first one Dustin, and our current puppy’s name is Teddy.  When Dustin passed away it wasn’t long before we got Ted.  Ted is very relaxed and calm, we sometimes wonder about him because golden retrievers tend to be energetic.  However, his friendliness certainly falls in line with a golden. 

 

I’ve always been drawn to animals for some reason.  My confirmation name is Francis after Saint Francis of Assisi, the patron saint of animals. They seem to always be happy and enjoy your company.  Having Teddy around is always a stress reliever for me because he just wants attention and to be loved. 

 

The year is closing in on us Victory Scholars very quickly, and I’m sure all of us are missing family and friends.  For me, Ted is considered a brother to me and he definitely is part of the group that I can’t wait to see.

 

 

 

Victory Scholar: Harrison Deyo

Present University: IT Carlow

US League: MAC

Club/Community Partner: IT Carlow Basketball

Alma Mater: Alvernia University

Sponsored by: Teamwear Ireland

 


Week 11

Happy New Year everyone! I am back in Ireland! My time at home certainly flew by but it was wonderful to be home to see my family and friends for the holidays. Now it’s back to work down here in Limerick! I was happy to see my U16s and U18s girls this past week for our first training session of the new year. It was especially exciting to see that every single girl who was there came to practice with their new basketballs that they had gotten for Christmas! This was the first time this had happened and I’m hoping this is a sign that the girls are starting to get more serious about playing. After running off all their Christmas turkey and cookies at the start of practice, the girls started to get back in the swing of things towards the end of the session. I noticed some of the girls talking while they were on the court and helping some of the other girls through the drills and plays we were running, which was obviously great to see! I’m looking forward to further improvement from them in the coming weeks! Also, this past weekend my Superleague team played in the Cup Semis down in Cork. We came out with a satisfying win over Waterford Wildcats (85-46). We are now headed to the finals in 2 weeks against Glanmire, who gave us our only loss of the season right before Christmas. It should be an exciting game and we’re all looking forward to it!!

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Tis the Season

            Thanksgiving is a holiday that is celebrated by many Americans, but is not celebrated in Northern Ireland.  As sad as that is, there is still great news for all my blog readers.  This means that the Christmas spirit comes even earlier over here!  Every year in Belfast, there is a “Christmas market” that is set up in the city.  It begins in November and runs through all the way up to Christmas.  For anyone that followed Sport Changes Life on snapchat (sclvictory) they will know that I went with some of the other Victory Scholars to check it out.

            The market was awesome.  When we arrived, the place was packed.  People were everywhere checking out the different stalls and booths that were set up.  The market was similar to a state fair in the United States.  All my southerners know what I’m talking about.  The market had a few small shops that sold clothes, trinkets and any other thing that would make good Christmas gifts.  There were also a huge variety of food stalls, which took up most of the space.  These stalls ranged from German sausages, cheeses, local restaurants, and all types of international food.  Personally, I had a sweet tooth and got a crepe loaded with all types of sweets… don’t tell my coach.  In short, I will definitely be making more trips back to the Christmas market to try explore some more.  #KangarooBurgerIsNext


Week 13

I’m BAACCCKKK!!

As I left for America for Christmas break, I didn’t realize how much I would miss my Irish family and lifestyle I have created over the last 4 months of being in Ireland. Saying this, while in the USA, I REALLY enjoyed being home with all my family and friends during the Christmas and New Years holidays. It was great I got to see some of my friends and also got to catch my old basketball teams from both high school and college play while I was home for the holidays. On Christmas morning, my family and I opened our gifts and for brunch indulged in the Graves’ Christmas tradition, Fried Chicken and Waffles, which was particularly amazing this year!! Overall, my Christmas break was a successful one filled with family time, eating (and lots of it), and having a great time with friends.

As I got back, this week we had our first exam of three on Monday. It was tough to study after a great vacation, but it had to be done. I studied very hard for it and I believe that I did well on it also. Now we have two more exams left to take and study for next week. 

Lastly, during this past week, in between our exams we had the privilege to teach children the wonderful game of basketball at Knockconan Primary School, Emyvale, Co Monaghan, where Mrs. D’s sister is the principal. We were able to teach the basics of basketball to children ranged from the ages of 4-11 years old. It was so much fun for us to be able to teach the game to these kids and I believe they enjoyed it and had fun also. After our basketball session and Q&A session with the 10-11 year olds, the kids all presented us with thank you cards (picture). I was appreciative and grateful for the card that looked like took a lot of time and effort from both the kids and the teachers. Overall, I had an awesome 10 days in the US and a great week back in Ireland. I look forward what the next 6 months have in store for me!! Thanks for reading!!

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1-2-3-4

Out of all the skills to learn in basketball, ALL kids want to do in a coaching session is shoot. You can teach them all the cool dribbling drills, engaging defensive drills, or intriguing passing drills you want, but if they leave a session without shooting the ball AT LEAST once, you can bet that you are in the dog house until the next coaching session. Earlier in the year, some of the Victory Scholars and I attended a coaching lesson in Dublin to earn our certificate to legally coach young children in Ireland. I found it to be quite fun and interesting; leaving with more coaching drills and tools I would’ve never thought of before. One of them is the “1-2-3-4” shooting drill.

 

I loved the drill but wasn’t sure if it would actually work, so I gave it a try on my five and six year-old girls, known as the “Wildkittens”, that come to the first session of the Wildcats’ Saturday morning basketball camp. If you were to come to these sessions, you would understand how difficult it is dealing with the most sassy but sweetest girls at 9:30 a.m., so it’s imperative to find drills that keep them distracted and entertained.

 

The drill goes like this – the girls put a basketball between their legs, which are shoulder-width apart. They are supposed to scream the number that corresponds with the shooting action in the drill. “1” is where they put their writing hand in the middle of the ball, perpendicular to the basketball’s seams. “2” is them putting their off/guide hand on the side of the ball. “3” is bringing the ball up forcing the arm to have an L-shape, wrist bent so the ball can sit in the palm of their hand while bending their knees at the same time. “4” is them pushing the ball up, extending their arm into a follow-thru jumping into their shot. After running through the drill a few times together, practicing our form, they absolutely LOVED it….then again I started thinking what’s easier than giving young children a drill that consists of a simple 1-2-3-4 count, right?

 

A week goes by and I am thinking that the 1-2-3-4 shooting drill went over their heads. I’ve learned that in my time as a coach, feeding a lot of information about the game of basketball to really young kids can be a lot, where most of the information tends to go through one ear and out of the other. If I can teach them at least three things that they will remember before I leave Ireland, I feel accomplished as a coach and the 1-2-3-4 concept seems to be that drill. Since then, every single Saturday camp when we play a quick game of hot-seat, two particular Wildkittens always do the 1-2-3-4 drill before shooting the ball. And quite honestly, those two girls are at the top of the ladder in the hot seat game every time. I’m really glad they enjoyed the drill as much as I did…

 

Victory Scholar: Jazmen Boone

Present University: Waterford IT

US League: CAA

Club/Community Partner: Waterford Wildcats

Alma Mater: The College of William and Mary

Sponsored by: Teamwear Ireland


Week 11

And we are back! I had a great time at home visiting so many friends and family during the holiday season. I flew in on Friday morning, and that night some of my Rockets teammates and I got to go to the Ulster Rugby game! It was a beautiful night (WAY warmer than Boston) and with a sold out crowd, Ulster beat the Scarlets and hold on to the top spot in the league.
A little jet-legged I slept as much as I could the next day since we had a game of our own last night, we also got the W beating the Liffey Celtics. Needless to say it was a busy two days back, but now it is back to the books with final exams the next two weeks!
I am also looking forward to getting back into the swing of things with the e-hoops guys and my Ulster Elks ladies and juniors! Its good to be back!

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Mama Fairbanks in the House

My mom is here!!!!! Just for about six days but it’s still such a nice treatJ. We’ve been exploring non-stop since she arrived a few days ago. She is also such a trooper coming with me to all of my coaching gigs, games, and even grocery shopping. She rocks. First, we registered for the Hop-On Hop-Off bus, which tours around major attractions all over Dublin city. You can get off and get back on anytime you want (pretty self-explanatory) for 24 hours. We explored South side the first time, and then went to get some dinner near Grafton Street before my coaching session. We ate at the Blind Pig, which was recommended to us by a friend from back home that actually goes to DCU! Small world, isn’t it? We thought we were in the wrong place at first because the restaurant is in the basement of another restaurant. There is a secret door that looks like an ordinary wall, and opens only when a button is pressed. It was so weird but so cool! We ate and then headed off to my game so that I could coach the under 20s team of DCU Mercy. We ended up losing pretty badly, which was annoying, but it was still nice to have my mom there.

 

The next day, we awoke early, grabbed some coffee, and headed into the city to go on the Hop-On Hop-Off bus again. We took a different route this time, and were able to jump off and sightsee at Christ Church Cathedral, Saint Patrick’s Cathedral, and the Irish Museum of Modern Art. We also bypassed some other cool locations, but wanted to save some experiences for when my dad comes hopefully in the spring. He wants to see the Guinness Factory and the Old Jameson Distillery, for instance.

 

Today my mom and I trekked over to Howth Coast after Academy this morning. It was the perfect day for it, too! No rain, wind, or too cold of a temperature (which is a lot to ask of Ireland, might I add). We hiked through the cliffs, walked parts of town, and ate lunch at this really yummy café. She finally got her Shepard’s pie, which she claims was on her bucket list in coming here. It’s not all that thrilling and we have it in Pennsylvania, but hey, it’s still good. We grabbed some chocolate on the way home (I have to say, I think Ireland has better candy than the States) and are excited to watch my sister’s basketball game tonight online. Hopefully time doesn’t pass too quickly with my mom, but I’ll be home in a month anyway! Can’t wait!!!            


Week 11

I attached a photo of the burgers that one could order at the Belfast Christmas Market. As Matt mentioned kangaroo, ostrich and Bambi were on the menu! Walking around the Market was like walking around Epcot in Walt Disney World only authentic. There were crafts, food and desserts from Germany, Spain, Wales, and Belgium to name a few. 

The first half of my year in Belfast flew by. The semester is over, the last game was played today (squeaked out a one point victory) and I am flying home tomorrow for ten days. I have met so many good people, experienced new things and learned a lot while living overseas. It was 100% a great decision to be a Victory Scholar this year. Although I may get mad fun of by my friends back home for my new habit of drinking 3 cups of tea a day. 

Once again I want to thank everyone that has made this first half of the year a tremendous experience and I am just as excited for the second half of the year. Merry Christmas, Happy New Years and Happy Holidays to everyone! I hope everyone has an enjoyable holiday season!

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Once a Wildcat…

Two weekends ago I played my last game on the Wildcats’ court. It didn’t dawn on me too much because we came away with a remarkable win and was already looking forward to play-offs. Looking back, I regret the fact that I didn’t soak in the moment. That moment of gratefulness, grateful for all of the loyal fans that cheered and supported us at every home match, grateful for the club leaders coordinating tea, sandwiches, and biscuits after every win or loss, grateful to share my last winning moment on the Wildcats’ floor with my favorite team, coach and manager.

 

Then this past weekend, I played my last game ever as a Wildcat, probably the last game I’ll ever wear the #12 jersey. We came up short against the Dublin Meteors by ONE point. Talk about a tough loss. As soon as the buzzer went off, I couldn’t hold back the tears. Thinking about all of the fun we had this season ending so abruptly. Girls that were once strangers turned into family, something I wasn’t ready to let go just yet. Then I started thinking about that game possibly being my last overseas game ever.

 

Although the results didn’t turn out in our favor, for any one that attended or watched the game online would’ve saw that both teams left it all on the court, giving everything they had. I’m happy I pushed myself to continue to play basketball another year. Earning back my confidence that I couldn’t find during my college basketball career, this season revived me, giving me so much life and happiness. Things I was once told I couldn’t do and truly believing that I couldn’t do them, I proved that I could throughout the entire year and it’s all thanks to the Wildcats club and our amazing season.

 

To those teammates that never once complained, cheering their hearts out on the bench. To our captain, Sin, that led us to such an unforgettable season. To the “White Mamba”, “Foxy”, “Hot-shot Stone”, and “Kat-ty” that became a solid starting five and an even better off-court unit with endless jokes. To Mick Evans and Aileen, our coach and manager respectively, giving us your hard work and dedication all year to our team and club. To Jillian and John, for those delicious Maxol sandwiches after the game and taking such great care of Katie and I.

 

With that said, once a Wildcat is always a Wildcat. And remember it’s not good-bye….it’s see you later 😉 

 

Victory Scholar: Jazmen Boone

Present University: Waterford IT

US League: CAA

Club/Community Partner: Waterford Wildcats

Alma Mater: The College of William and Mary

Sponsored by: Teamwear Ireland


Week 10

Ho ho ho!!! 

Just wanted to write a quick note before I head back to the States for the holidays! I can’t believe the first half of this experience is already over ☹ It certainly did fly by. Today was the last training session with my U16 and U18 teams before breaking for Christmas and the New Year. We decided to let the girls play fun games for the hour and we listened to Christmas music the whole time. I think the girls really enjoyed the break from the typical training sessions we usually have. Even though it was a fun day, I was impressed with one particular player who was so excited to show me her shot that she had been working on. She really really wants to be able to shoot 3 pointers but doesn’t have the strength yet. I told her she had to start in close and work her way out. Before she can shoot three’s she has to perfect the closer shots, and I think she’s starting to understand the importance of practice outside of the team trainings. When I got to training this morning, she was so eager to show me what she has been working on. I can’t wait to work with these girls in the New Year. I’m hoping they will have a whole new mentality and really start taking basketball serious. There’s already one girl putting in some extra time, hopefully her effort will rub off on the other girls!

Also, good luck to Caroline in her first game today!!! WOOT WOOT!!! It’s about time! I’m sure your super excited to finally get on the hardwood. Good luck girl!!!

I hope everyone has a wonderful and very Merry Christmas and happy New Year!

 

 

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What We Came Here For

I can’t believe I am saying this but: I have been living in Ireland for over 3 months!!!! There are times when I feel like it was yesterday that I was wearing shorts and saying good-bye to my family and then there are other times that I feel like I am practically Irish. I have truly learned so much since I have been here and have made relationships with such special people. I had decided to share with you a story that has been one of the highlights of my journey so far.

A few months ago when I found out that I was coaching an 18 and under team I was nervous. I was closer in age with them compared to any other coach I have ever coached before. The coaches that I had during my high school years had such an impact on myself, and it hit me that I have the potential to have a big impact on them. I’m not going to lie the pressure felt heavy on my chest: what if I had a negative impact on them? So many “what if” questions spiraled in my mind. Nights before the first practice I stayed up thinking “how do you become inspirational?”

When the first day of practice came, I wrote up a practice plan and decided I was just going to stay positive. My goal was to have them leave having learned at least one thing about the game, and be happier than they were before they came. Once the season got going I began looking forward to going to coaching, and interacting with the girls. They were teaching me as much as I was trying to teach them.

3 months in and I received a text from one of my players, randomly; on a night we did not have practice. She was asking how I had done in my last game, and my response was simple: “We lost, but I had a good time.” I then went on to say, that it is always important to keep a positive attitude and spread it with others. That is what I try to do with the girls even if I may seem goofy.

 

Her response will be something that I will never forget:

 

“You make basketball so much though, it’s amazing.”

This was one of those moments in life, where I felt that a “thank you” was just not enough. It was one of the nicest things that anyone has ever said to me. It was not just a confidence boost, but it also made me realize you can’t plan on being inspirational, you just have to be yourself. Because just being you might be exactly what someone needs in their life.

 

 


Week 10

Its been a long time coming! Tomorrow, I finally get to step out on the hardwood and compete! What a Christmas present! We had two really good practices this week, and I could not be more excited! We will be traveling down to Dublin to play Killester for a 6pm tip-off. 

I want to send my Christmas wishes to all of my teams, friends, and family both in the States and here in Ireland. And a big shout out to the Boston University Women’s Basketball team going 8-3 heading into the Christmas break as well as being rank #14 in the mid-major polls. Proud to be a Terrier! The Rockets are looking for a couple of W’s going into the new year as well. What a great time of year! 

Merry Christmas to all, and to all a Good Night!

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Ending on a High Note

The 14u Elks season has come to a close. I would have liked to start this blog by announcing that my 14u Elks finished our win-less season with a win. Unfortunately, that’s not how it turned out. Tonight we lost our last match of the season to Queens. But after the game was over, I told the girls there was no reason why they shouldn’t leave the gym with their heads held high. Girls who were mastering catching and shooting at the beginning of the season were driving to the bucket for layups tonight. We were stealing the ball off our opponents instead of the other way around. The second half of the game was one of the best halves of team basketball we played all year! The pinnacle of our progress as a team came in our final game and I couldn’t be prouder. Despite the score and our overall record, it was a joy to hear the girls in the locker room after the game. They were talking amoungst themselves saying it was the most fun they had playing all season. As a coach, I couldn’t ask for more than that. I’m so proud of the girl’s progress week after week. It was pleasure coaching my mini Elks this season!

 

Victory Scholar: Clare Sullivan

Present University: Ulster University

US League Partner: Patriot League

Club/Community Partner: Ulster Elks

Alma Mater: The College of the Holy Cross

Sponsored by: Teamwear Ireland 


Week 12

It’s Official Christmas!!

With my last paper turned in this Monday, it is officially the Christmas season for me. It felt as it wasn’t Christmas for me just because of all the coursework that was due toward the end of the semester, but now it is officially Christmas!! 
This past weekend was the beginning of my Christmas vacation when I got to coach my U13 and U14 Junior Girls Elks team on Friday and Saturday. They did sooooo well in both games and we won!! It feels so good for me as a coach to see the girls improve so much from the first time they came to practice. The girls have worked very hard and deserve all the credit for improving both as a team and individually. I can’t wait to keep working with each of them to continue to improve in the New Year! Jim and I also had a National League game on Sunday and we won. Next up for us, we have a game this Saturday against the Blue Demons.
Lastly, Caroline, Jim and I got to go to the annual Christmas market in Belfast City Center. One of our friends was our gracious guide as we all went a little Christmas shopping. Because of our coursework and the protests going on in the city we couldn’t go to the market until yesterday. It was a great experience and I wish we could have gone earlier in the month. There were numerous vendors selling items and great food (kangaroo burgers) at the market to enjoy and we had a great time.
Needless, to say I am officially in the Christmas mood and I look forward to getting to go home for a little bit to see all my family and friends. Merry Christmas and Happy New Year everyone!!! Or as one of my teammates says Happy Christmas everyone!!

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Stronger

We sat in a cold locker room in silence for about forty-five seconds.  We had just lost our first game of the season to the Dublin Lions, a team we had previously beaten a few weeks earlier.  This loss hurt not only because it was to a team we had already beaten, but also because it ruined my vision that I had for our team.  My vision was for our team, the Ulster Elks, to go unbeaten all year and be champs of the league.  To many people I’m sure this sounds like a pretty bold and ignorant statement, but I truly believed it.  I truly believed we wouldn’t lose a game.  But I’m glad we did.

            After our team sat in silence for a bit, one of my teammates spoke up and apologized for a few bad plays.  The rest of the team chimed in and did the same.  No one pointed fingers.  No one blamed anyone else for losing the game.  Everyone stepped up and took responsibility for mistakes that they made, even though it was no single person’s fault for losing the game (and it never is).  This is one reason why I am proud to be a part of this team.  Even in our loss we all stuck together.  We vowed to take it personally, work harder in practice, and push the entire team to get better so that we could move on with our season.

            Things never go as planned.  We often doubt ourselves when are going through challenges.  But those challenges are what make us who we are.  And it’s important to know that we don’t have to face them alone.  We always have a team, family, and friends.  We may have lost our first game, but I’m glad we did because I know we can grow stronger from it.  #RollWithThePunches


Week 14

 

Going into my last coaching session before my Christmas break, I was excited to see my players, and was filled with a lot of energy. But within the first couple minutes into the session, that excitement and energy quickly changed to frustration and disappointment. I was extremely disappointed that one of the players (“Laura”) was not putting in the effort. One thing that I heard from all my coaches throughout my basketball career is that, I’ll coach everything except for effort. If you cant put in the effort and determination yourself, then there isn’t much I can do for you. And that was the problem with Laura. For some reason, she was just walking around the court, not playing defense and simply not putting in any effort to try and better herself as a basketball player. That frustrated me a lot, because its hard for me to try and help someone who seems to not want to get better on her own. Personally I have always been someone who’s needed to put in extra effort to become a better basketball player and it has benefitted me. So, it hurts to see someone who has the ability to be very talented but doesn’t seem to have the work ethic to try and get better.

I asked Laura if someone was forcing her to be there at training. She responded by saying no, and that she loves basketball and she wanted to be there herself. Then I responded well that great that you love basketball and that you want to be here, but while your here, I need you to promise that you will put in the effort, because it doesn’t matter if you are the most talented player or not, if I feel as if you don’t put in the effort to trying to get better as a basketball player, it is going to be hard for me to help you. I told Laura, with pure sincerity that I don’t want to be wasting anyones time if they see what Im doing as a coach for them as unhelpful. But if you are going to be at training, effort is something that I am not going to coach. I will teach you all the tools, x’s and o’s to making you a better basketball player, but the effort has got to come on your own. Lastly, I mentioned to Laura that if you truly love basketball as much as say you do, the effort you can bring to training should not be such a burden to yourself if you enjoy what your doing. It was then that I believe that it began to sink in with her. I’m hoping that after Christmas break, what I said to Laura really settles in and changes her approach to training session regarding her effort. I only want to see her along with the other players get better while putting in their maximum effort!

Well thank you for reading my blog this week, I hope everyone has a great Christmas vacation! Take care everyone!

 

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Family and Hoops

 

This past weekend I coached the 18u Elks women’s team in their last game of the season, this game would mark the last regular season game that they would all be playing together before going to college. This team dominated the whole year in the BNI league and since the 18 year olds on that team were 13 they have remained undefeated in the League! It’s something I feel blessed to be apart of. One of the reasons they are so successful is the bond that they share with each other. The girls, parents and coaches at every age group are a family. Our last game was in Kilkenny which was 2 hours away and you what have thought it was a home game for us with how loud our parents were!

 

Seeing those parents every week makes me very happy and it makes me so appreciative of the family I had growing up to watch games. In the last blog I wrote I talked about how the negative people in your life can be used to motivate you but I need to give a special thanks to my family and everything they have done to motivate me on my journey on the positive side of that negativity though.

 

My mother never missed a game that she could be at even when I didn’t see the floor. Watching them all walk in for my senior game last year brought tears to my eyes because of how supportive they are of me. Seeing the parents of the Elks also makes me appreciate my beautiful girlfriend Kelly and her lovely family who took me in when I was at school in the Bronx. There is something so liberating about sport when you know you are giving your all with your family in the stands and I must say in all those close games we had hearing Kelly’s tank of father jumping up and down yelling “take em all on Jimmy” with Kelly her mother and brothers all yelling as loud as can be it gave me all the confidence in the world. Your family sees all the work that has been put into it so their support makes victory that much sweeter and defeat that much easier to overcome. I am so thankful that God has blessed me with so the these amazing people and  people I have met here in Ireland and I look forward to spreading his love with as many people as I can while I’m still here. 

 

The whole elks organization is a strong unit from the 14u girls squad all the way through to the Senior Men’s team and I have to say it feels great to be a part of it all. Everyone on the Elks Men’s team including the coaches were so welcoming it made my transition here a beautiful one and it has reinstalled in me the idea that relationships formed are the most important aspect of a team. 

 

I would like to close by saying happy Mother’s Day to my sweet mother because it is Mother’s Day here in Northern Ireland! I love you so much and thanks for the meatballs recipe!

 

Victory Scholar: James Zuccaro

Present University: Ulster University

US League: Skyline Conference

Club/Community Partner: Ulster Elks

Alma Mater: College of Mount Saint Vincent

Sponsored by: Teamwear Ireland


Week 9

Yesterdays W marked the last game for the Junior Elks before the Christmas break. We end the first half of the seaon on a dominating note, with every single player focused and ready to go (at least for the first half!) I have to give a shout out to Ciara Star for playing the best defensive I have seen all year, now that includes, mens national league, Elks(men and women), and women’s Superleague. 🙂 Great job Ciara! 

And today marked the end of my semester handing in my final paper on Corporate Social Responsibility. Happy Days all around!!! Now its time to enjoy the holiday season! 
Last night the Maguire girls, Jessica and I watched Elf next to the Christmas tree and by the fire, it was a great end to a great weekend! I am looking forward to enjoying the Christmas Market in town this week and doing some christmas shopping. Oh how I have missed shopping. But what I am really looking forward too is Saturday…stay tuned.

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Fantastic Beasts!

Tonight, we went to our very first “cinema” (movie theater) in Ireland. I haven’t gone out to see a movie in theaters since I left home which was about 3 months ago! For those people who know me, this would be a huge change from how I was in America. I love going to the movies! I worked for a movie theater when I was younger and enjoyed all the benefits of free movies and free popcorn for me and my family and friends. In America, I would say I went to the movies at least once a week; especially with my best friend for $5 Movie Tuesday! That’s something I really do miss. So when one of our Wildcats teammates invited Lacy and me to go to the movies tonight, we had to say yes! Not knowing what to expect of movie theaters out here, it was fun to imagine how different it would be. What movie did we end up seeing? That’s a good question. We saw Fantastic Beasts and Where To Find Them. Neither of us had ever heard of it before going to watch, but it proved to be a pretty interesting movie. And the “cinema” was pretty much just like the ones back home so it was really nice to be able to go. Thanks Helena and Katie for the night out!


Week 13

Evening everyone, 

What an unforgettable semester it’s been. In five days, I’ll be boarding a bus at 3am to catch a 7am flight home from Shannon Airport for a 3-week break. Pretending to disregard my aversion to early morning wake-ups, I’m looking forward to enjoying a few weeks in farm country, Virginia. My dad has already promised a large breakfast of eggs and bacon for my first morning back. However, given past years, I still expect my parents to underestimate the amount of food necessary to keep me alive over a 3-week period. My apologies, in advance, for the grocery bill. 

The University of Limerick recently put up a Christmas tree on campus (see picture), providing a daily reminder of the light at the end of this long tunnel that is final exams period. I can hardly believe the semester has gone by this quickly, and yet, I oddly feel as though I’ve been here for more than a year. Each day of this experience reminds me how truly grateful I am to the Sport Changes Life foundation for making this year possible. 

Taking a break from studying for my two remaining final exams, I can’t help but reflect on my (does “busy” even describe it?) four months here. After arriving with a nagging knee injury, my impatience led to a sequence of three consecutive pulled hamstrings, delaying any consistent time on the field until quite recently. 

That being said, last night, I played all 90 minutes in a final match before returning home for the holidays…it ended in a 1-1 draw. So my fitness is returning, the old injuries continue to progress, and believe it or not, having a fresh start has cleared my head, and reinvigorated my love for the game, and my approach…I’d like to think I’ve become more patient when it comes to future injuries – yeah, right. I’ll even enjoy an opportunity to continue playing over the holidays…In January, I’ll be heading to Philadelphia to try out for the U.S. team for the 2013 Summer Maccabiah games (shout out to the Jewish side of my family for making me eligible). At this point, however, I’ve acknowledged a newfound satisfaction simply in lacing up the cleats again day after day …anything beyond that is merely an added bonus. 

Thus far, I’ve submitted two (out of six) graduate school applications for next year, for sport and performance psychology programs. No doubt, I’m looking forward to the continuation of that tedious process over the next few weeks. 

Last week, Sarah and I accompanied John Keyes (a coach from Arsenal FC’s community programs) to Corpus Christi NS, a primary school in the disadvantaged community of Moyross, on the outskirts of Limerick. We had an incredible time with the kids, playing some 3v3 soccer in the gym (props to Sarah for displaying some impressive skills and nearly scoring with a shot off the crossbar), and joining them in the classroom for the final session of their semester long program before Christmas break. While it was, for the most part, a wrap-up of the previous weeks, it was easy to note how enthusiastic and grateful the kids were for the work John had been doing. One of the younger boys even acknowledged the importance of the program, noting that he became aware, as the weeks went on, that soccer came “after finishing our school work.” It’s quickly becoming obvious that John is having a massive impact in these areas, in the way he interacts the residents, and the extent to which they respect him. I hope the coming months provide further opportunities to learn from him and help out in any means possible. 

I was fortunate (careful word choice there), during practice the other day…I hit the shot of my life…during a small sided game, I pushed the ball forward from about 30-35 yards out, and unleashed what might be best described as a heat-seeking missile on a string to the top corner. I will be the first to admit that I will NEVER strike a ball like it again (and those who know me, know that I don’t score many goals, period…let alone Steven Gerrardesque goals:  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Rv6vpGkhP0I). But, as most soccer players can agree, it was nice to enjoy it while it lasted. 

Lastly, on the 5-6 year old coaching front, the last practice of the year before Christmas yielded a grand total of two players showing up yesterday (out of what, most times, is ten-fifteen). Needless to say, it wasn’t the most productive hour and a half. Even the one 7-year old who was sent to my field (to give me an additional player) chose to sit on the sideline for half the practice (don’t ask me why, I have no idea). The good news, however, is that “Patrick” (the 5 year old who has a habit of running other players over, in his attempts to get the ball) is showing marked behavioral improvement from the earlier sessions. It’s becoming quickly obvious that he responds positively to extra individual attention. He even extended a hand to help the other teammate up yesterday (after he had, of course, run the kid over in his attempt to get the ball). Small victories though, small victories. 

All my love to those at home…can’t wait to see some of you.


College Ball

Last week, the NUIG college basketball team I am on won our regular season semifinal game against Dublin Institute of Technology. This punches our ticket to play in the championship game against Griffith College, in the National arena in Dublin. From what I understand NUIG has rarely won the regular season title, so having the chance to play for this is a huge honor.

This team is enjoyable to play with because it is a unique mix of players from surrounding club teams as well as some that do not play on any club teams at all. There are representatives from the clubs Moycullen, Maree, and Galway Titans. It’s great to see when players from many different backgrounds can come together and contribute to making a team.  Going forward, in both the regular season finals, as well as the varsities tournament, it is important that we continue to get contributions from all these members.  It’s contributions from all these different people that have allowed us to get to where we are, and it’s what we need to continue going further. 

 

Victory Scholar: Cory Starkey 

Present University: NUI Galway

US League: Patriot League 

Club/community partner: Galway Titans 

Alma Mater: Bucknell University 

Sponsored by: Teamwear Ireland 

 


Week 9

With things wrapping up just before Christmas break, this past week was a pretty busy week with everything. On Friday, I handed in my last assignment and had my one and only final, so I am now officially finished with my first semester here at the University of Limerick! Since we don’t start classes again until the last week of January, it will be nice to get a break from schoolwork for a couple weeks. 

Also, earlier in the week, Gareth, Ryan and I were able to meet with John Keyes, who as Ryan mentioned, works with Arsenal soccer. John is actually from the UK but has been coming to Limerick every other week for the past year to work with the local disadvantaged communities in the area. It was great for all of us to be able to sit down with him and fully inform him of the goals and visions of Sport Changes Life. Fortunately, he has very similar goals and hopes to successfully help the individuals in these areas in similar ways SCL has been helping those in Belfast. John stressed the point to us that it is not all about teaching and playing sports with these kids. His main goal is to mentor and guide the kids so they learn to make the decisions that are best for their overall wellbeing. Sports are obviously a great way to teach them discipline and teamwork, but he also wants them to learn that schoolwork must always come first, which is why he spends time with them in the classroom. It was great to hear that his ideas and approaches are consistent with those of SCL, and we all think he will be a great individual for Ryan and I to work with while we are here.

In addition to this meeting, Ryan and I went with John to one of the schools in Moyross. Over the last 12 weeks, John and another individual have implemented an after school program in which a group of students spend an extra hour at school working on homework, and if they behave well, they are rewarded with some time playing soccer. The kids welcomed both Ryan and I with excitement and an endless number of questions, wanting to know everything about us. Since it was the last day of the program before Christmas, they got to spend most of the time playing soccer. After spending the time with them, one of the main things I learned was that I should probably brush up on my soccer skills before the next time I see them…I don’t think too many of them were impressed with my skills!! I guess I’ll have to challenge them all to a basketball match soon to make up for my lack of soccer skills!! On a more serious note though, I could tell how much each of them had benefited from their time in the program and all of them said they would definitely do the program again if they had the chance. 

On top of all this, I was fortunate enough to be able to visit the beautiful coastal town of Kilkee. Kilkee is a popular summer vacation spot for those from Limerick and the view is simply amazing!! I definitely understand why everyone spends their summers there! 

I also want to give a huge shout out to the Superleauge team. We played DCU today and after trailing the majority of the game (down 16 at one point), we came home with the W!! It was our toughest match yet but everyone stayed together to fight back! 

This time next week I’ll be home with my family/friends in the great state of Pennsylvania!!! Can’t wait to see everyone!

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Is it Merry or Happy Christmas?

On Saturday, November 19th, the city of Belfast opened up the annual Christmas Market! It’s a big tradition that happens for about 6 weeks leading up to Christmas. It takes place right in the city, on the outside of City Hall. The display of decoration and lights were outstanding and I quickly saw why this was such a big thing. Thousands and thousands of people were outside in the freezing cold waiting for the lights to come on! Once I saw the number of people outside waiting in weather that cold, I knew this was going to be special. I had kept hearing this buzz about the market and how I must visit. The other scholars at UUJ and I headed down to view the turning on of the lights. I was overwhelmed with the number of people that came out to see the lights! The city of Belfast went above and beyond!

 

The market was filled with tons of shops of local vendors. They had everything you could imagine there from great food, great shops and food from vendors from all around the world. I didn’t really know what to expect but I had a great time. Being in the Christmas spirit this early in November is very different but I’m very accepting of it. I will be back to do some Christmas shopping for my loved ones and to try some new food. Christmas is one of my favorite holidays and I’m excited to experience some of the holiday tradition here in Northern Ireland. I’m very blessed to be able to go back home for the Christmas break so I’m able to have two complete but exciting Christmas holiday celebrations. As they say in Belfast… Happy Christmas!


Week 10

As I sit writing my final paper on Corporate Social Responsibility in the library, I came across a very interesting article in the Belfast Telegraph. Lately in class we have been speaking about the tax avoidance schemes of Starbucks, Amazon and Google. Here I am living in Belfast for almost 4 months now and thinking that there is not that big of a difference between the USA and here. Well this article reminded me of how business and taxes can be looked at very differently throughout different cultures. The UK government is arguing that many major companies are being unethical by avoiding taxes, but these same companies (mostly founded in USA) think it is merely good business. Recognizing these cultural differences could be very beneficial for future business decisions. 

Here is the article and the Google Chairman’s bold response pertaining to tax avoidance: 

http://www.belfasttelegraph.co.uk/news/local-national/uk/google-boss-eric-schmidt-im-proud-of-our-tax-avoidance-schemeits-called-capitalism-16249970.html

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CHANGE

We say it all the time, we hashtag it and post it; we even wear it on our clothes. But how exactly are we, meaning collectively the SCL and Scholars, changing the lives of the kids we coach? 

 

Me and Meg’s outreach program works with inner-city Dublin schools, bringing the kids to our Trinity gym during their school day for a nice little session of basketball. The groups we work with are mixed between girls and boys, some are basketball players and some are just there for fun. Throughout the program, the transformation has been noticeable; some of the groups would have dreaded coming to the coaching earlier on, where now, everyone comes rushing in excited to grab a ball and play. 

 

So how have we, Meg, myself and of course Hugh our community partner, affected their lives? Over the past couple of weeks, the teachers and principals of the schools have repeatedly mentioned that noticeably more kids show up for school on the days we coach. Teachers laughingly describe that ‘kids will miss any other day but not the day they have basketball’.

 

We might not be molding future NBA stars (keeping my fingers crossed though), but the mere fact that what we do motivates these kids to come to school more often, that our program gives them something to look forward too–well that’s all the #change I could of asked for.

 

Victory Scholar: Emily Leer

Present University: Trinity College Dublin

US League Partner: Big 5

Club/Community Partner: Meteors Ladies Basketball

Alma Mater: Villanova University

Sponsored by: Teamwear Ireland


Chillin with Granny

The past weekend we had the great pleasure of going up the coast with one of my teammates, Seana, to visit her granny and grandad and do some sightseeing. We left Friday night after practice and were greeted an hour later by hugs, kisses, food and drink. Seaa’s Granny Celine had prepared cocktail sausages, fried cheese, fruit, chips and dip and other delicious snacks for us to eat upon arrival. They were the absolute sweetest hosts ever and we all felt so cozy and at home.  We sat by the fireplace and chatted until late in to the night and then snuggled up for bedtime. We awoke to the smell of good food whiffing up from the kitchen and a hot-tub ready for us dive in. We sat for a while in the hot-tub chatting away while the jets massaged our backs, watching as day began to get brighter. We had a full day of outdoor excursions planned so we were quite excited that the clouds seemed to be staying away.

After a big breakfast, prepared for us by Seana’s granny, we headed out for the Giant’s Causeway. The Causeway is an area of interlocking basalt columns that were created by the cooling of the rock after an ancient volcanic eruption. The legend has it that the Causeway was built by giants, hence its name, but I guess we will never truly know. Anyways, we were greeted at the Causeway by a beautiful rainbow and sunny skies and it was really cool to walk along the rocks and see how meticulously the hexagonal shaped rocks fit like a puzzle next to and stacked on top of each other. Many of the rocks seemed like mini pools as they played host to the rain that we luckily missed. The serenity of the coast line was breathtaking. Check out the pictures, although even those don’t do it justice.

After our trip to the Causeway we made our way to the Carrick-a-rede rope bridge, which links the mainland to the small island of Carrickarede. The bridge used to take salmon fishers across to the island where they had a small boathouse and fished for salmon. Nowadays it is a tourist attraction but you can still see some of the remains from where the salmon fishers used to anchor. The views leading up to and on the bridge were pretty spectacular but the bridge itself was a little scary and a lot wobbly, I must admit. We finished our day’s festivities at a cute wee coffee shop as we sat by the fire and drank hot chocolate. What’s more, the shop had Belgium chocolate buttons so y’all already know I had to buy a bag! They were delicious.

We concluded our visit to Port Stewart back where it all began, at Granny’s house, where we came home to a lovely meal and even lovelier company. When it was time to leave we slowly meandered out to the car, wishing we could stay another night and sure to return again soon.


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